Being Her Guilty Pleasure Leaves Her Wanting More

Everyone loves a little guilty pleasure. But how can you apply that in your relationship?

It must be frustrating to be that guy who is always unable to impress and persuade women because you’re the one who cares more. In turn, you have to deal with the pain and rejection from women who don’t bat an eye towards you.

This has to change. You know what they say, nice guys finish last.

Be the snake that offers the fruit in her little garden, and slither your way into her heart.

Everyone loves a guilty pleasure, especially women. Some will give in to someone they know they should never enjoy, and yet they do. Why? Because women are addicted to a little bit of danger.

However, other women are strong enough to resist such feeble temptations. Maybe the apple wasn’t succulent and sweet enough to entice her. Nevertheless, remember that you are in control, so shrug it off and try harder next time.

Now, we aren’t saying that you should treat her like a bad guy. But what does guilty pleasure mean, if not that?

Guilty pleasure meaning

Generally, guilty pleasure refers to activities, products, or habits that bring joy but can also cause feelings of shame. A few examples are dancing in your room alone, getting dressed up only to take selfies in your room, and social media stalking.

These behaviors would never be so bad as to ruin someone’s life, but you may be hesitant to share your guilty pleasures with others due to embarrassment. Although this may seem contradictory, almost everyone indulges in guilty pleasures on occasion.

However, in the context of pursuing women, being a guilty pleasure means being a man they know they should stay away from but can’t because he treats them right.

Be like Johnny Deep or Charlie Sheen—irresistible yet slightly dangerous.

But how?

Make yourself seem unavailable, and you’ll be sought out

When we talk about guilty pleasures, it’s usually about that extra slice of cake that you know would ruin your figure. Or, it’s binge-watching a show, knowing fully well that you’re going to be late for work the next day. But you can’t help it! You can’t resist tuning in to the next episode!

Men who make themselves seem forbidden, like the last piece of cake or television magic, have a way of bringing passion and desire into the relationship. As a result, you can introduce a touch of sensuality into your woman’s life, igniting her desires.

It’s all an elaborate chase

It might seem pointless to go back and forth and tease her with your time and effort. But after some time of poking the bear, it does get satisfying.

Although enjoyable at the moment, once you’ve learned to become a guilty pleasure, you’ll wonder if any man can do anything else. You can be so caught up in the act that you may start acting like a total jerk instead of just being playful.

But remember, no matter how much fun you had when it started, you should still be indulging. Don’t become a man they would hate.

You’re aiming to be pursued, not disposed of.