Women’s Secrets: 9 Texts to Get Him Chasing You
Have you ever received a text from a girl you like that you just can’t seem to ignore? Like that time she texted you, and you scrambled for a reply? You’re not alone. Almost everyone has been in the same situation ever since texting became a thing.
Women have a secret texting technique that makes men pursue them. They basically have a dating bible that says something like “9 texts to get him chasing you,” and 95% of the time, it works!
So if you are one of the thousands of guys receiving these kinds of texts, you’re in the right place! We’ll talk about these texts and learn how they can positively or negatively impact your relationship with her.
How Should You Interpret These Texts?
In the age of texting and chatting, knowing how these texts can affect you is important to know if you are in the right relationship. Texts can tell you so much about the girl you like.
For instance, if she keeps texting you about your day, you can say that she wants to know how you are doing. She wants to be the first to know if you are having a rough time, so she can make you feel better.
To know if a certain text is good or bad, you will need to read between the lines. Sometimes, she can send you a message that has a hidden meaning that you need to figure out. It might be bad; it might be good. It all depends on the situation.
Let’s say, for example, she texts you at 1 AM. The text reads, “Are you still up?” You can interpret this text in so many ways. One, it might mean that she can’t sleep and wants to talk to you until she falls asleep. Sweet, right?
However, it can also be interpreted as a way for her to find out if you are already asleep, so she can do something you might not approve of; like going out with her friends at 1 AM. Best friends, coffee, and bagels can wait until breakfast.
If you’re dating a foreign woman, you might also need to be a bit more understanding. Say you’re in Colombia dating a woman from Cartagena, Medellin, or Bogota. Whatever messages you exchange could totally be lost in translation.
9 Texts to Get Him Chasing You
Let’s get down to the nitty-gritty. Out of the thousands of texts she can send you, we’ve picked nine that will most likely pique your interest and get you chasing her. Depending on how you interpret them, here are her “top 9 texts to get him chasing you.”
1. "Are you busy tonight?"
You get the idea, she wants you around. Who can resist a girl who wants your undivided attention? It is good that she’s letting you know what she wants, which is having you around.
2. "What do you think about the Green Bay Packers?" (Or any other sports team)
Guys love women who are into sports. Sure, she might not have watched a single ballgame in her life. But a girl who brings up sports knows a guy’s soft spot. This is one of those texts a guy can’t ignore.
3. "Do you think about marriage?"
Women know how a man’s mind works. She might just be teasing you, but you can’t resist telling her that you are indeed thinking about a long-term relationship that ends in marriage.
4. "Let's go out to eat. My treat!"
It has become a stereotype that men always pay the bill when they go out on a date. Then again, not all women think that way. Some are happy to split or even pay for the entire bill. This text shows that she wants to go out with you because she enjoys your company, not because she wants you to pay for her meal.
5. "Do you miss me the same way I miss you?"
Men like women who are straightforward and honest. You know you are head over heels for someone honest about her feelings for you.
6. "You are the reason I wake up and fall asleep with a smile on my face."
Hits you right in the heart bone, if there is even such a bone in your body. This text might seem a bit too common for some, but if you think about it, this kind of text never fails to make you smile as well.
7. "I can't sleep. Can you please stop thinking about me? *kiss emoji*"
You might as well reply with “How did you know I was thinking of you?” Gets her every time.
8. "I hate work. I just want to cuddle with you."
She’s really making a point about how much she is into you, so much so that she would rather not be at work.
9. "I want you for keeps."
If you fear commitment, this message might be your worst fear. But hey, you’re here because you’re trying to find a loving wife or partner, so we’re sure this text will melt your heart like jelly.
How Do These Texts Affect Your Relationship?
Like everything in a relationship, you need an open mind when it comes to texts. There’s a perfect time and place for everything, and texting is no exception. However, do not be too quick to judge her just because she has a book on “how to make a guy text you everyday.” She likes you, and that’s the reason she wants you to chase her, even if it means sending you some of these cheesy or corny text messages.
At the end of the day, she only wants your attention. You can’t just expect her to text her best friends. Coffee and bagels taste better when they are shared with you, after all. Be thankful that she puts in the effort to text you for your attention. And communication is always the key to a healthy relationship. If this bothers you, you can always talk to her without undermining her feelings.
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