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Realistic Expectations of Dating Colombian Women

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Set realistic expectations when dating Colombian women.

Though the online dating platform is full of amazing people, you may never find your match right away. This is why two of the most important things you need to keep in mind when dating online is being patient and having realistic expectations.

There are many great Colombian women who you can find through dating apps. Sometimes, the only thing that keeps you from getting serious with one of them is your own unrealistic expectations. In this case, remind yourself to keep your feet on the ground and set the bar just right.

Take time to self-reflect and see online dating as it is

Why exactly would you sign up on a dating site or find a date in real life? Do you want a serious relationship or just someone to hook up with for some time? In case you don’t know, there are dating sites or apps that cater to specific dating purposes. So if you want a serious relationship, make sure that you join a dating site that is for long distance relationships or marriage. There are also sites for when you just want a casual fling.

Know what you are really looking for. That fixes your unrealistic expectations toward online dating—that it’s not the magic solution for your dating life. That helps set realistic goals and standards.

One great thing about online dating is that you get to meet women of all types and who you wouldn’t meet under normal circumstances. However, having a wide pool of options can be a bad thing.

For one, it makes it easier to compare photos and descriptions. Such a freedom to just scroll through hundreds of women’s profiles and judging them just by their looks gives you a false sense of having many choices and opportunities.

If you don’t keep yourself in check, you may end up feeling frustrated. Consequently, having too many options may make you less satisfied with just any single choice. And so you would start to worry if you make the wrong choice.

Remind yourself this: Don’t just swipe right from one Colombian woman to another. If you do, this turns online dating an indirect culprit for objectifying potential partners like some products on a store shelf rather than seeing them as they are.

To avoid falling into this trap, it helps that you know better what you want for a life mate, so you don’t have to click one woman one after the other.

Know that profiles may be inadequate or far from real life

Do you rely on just physical attraction or profile descriptions when looking for Colombian women online? While it’s true that physical attractiveness is very important (especially in the initial stage), the real characteristics of a Colombian woman will be what makes you even more attracted to her.

On the other hand, you never know if the average-looking women are the ones who actually have a personality that is compatible with ours. This means you shouldn’t just make quick decisions for potential mates based solely on the women’s looks.

Some online profiles have inadequate or even partially true information. The point is you can never know if you’re compatible with someone unless you meet or chat with her further. In order to verify whether she’s telling the truth or not, you may need to go beyond chatting and start initiating video or phone calls with her.

Not only will you save yourself the awkwardness from hearing your voices for the first time for when you finally meet, but you also get to know her better other than what she puts in her profile. Somehow, this also helps you sift out the truth from the bluff.

You should also remember that not everyone who appears to be beautiful in their profiles are the same in real life. Give her the benefit of the doubt and don’t get too caught up on the details. Keeping this in mind will spare you from expecting too much early on when you finally meet face to face. Plus, she’s just human, you know. She’ll never be as picture perfect as your mind says so.

Not every woman turns out to be a romantic prospect

If the reason you joined dating sites is to find someone who you can instantly connect with romantically, the same platform will disappoint you. Some men have this urge to steer regular chitchat into something romantic, like some light flirting. But by doing this, you may lose the opportunity for the right questions to ask a Colombian girl as well as allowing the relationship to develop naturally.

When you engage in the virtual dating experience, do not be misled by the initial spark you feel when you get along with someone. And don’t let the lack of a spark stop you from getting to know your date deeper. Most couples only connect romantically with each other later on, so it doesn’t hurt keeping an open mind despite your date not meeting your expectations.

Establishing a romantic connection is not something you can force on someone. Just give yourselves a little time to get to know each other first before diving in. Besides, it’s better that you meet in person so you know if she’s “the one” or not.

No to too much stalking

While a little research isn’t so bad (from seeing her dogs, looking at her photos, to knowing her Medellin Colombia nightlife), make sure you don’t go too far. Knowing too much might make you judge her differently.

Whether you researched her on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, Tumblr, Linkedin, or other social media platforms, the only way to get to know her is when you give her the chance to show who she really is—not get your mind clouded with an imaginary girl based on her posts.

Set realistic standards

Dating sites and apps may even be better than the normal way of finding a date among Colombian women. To be successful at online dating, be patient and, more importantly, make sure your expectations aren’t too high so that you would be able to find love easier.


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